Meditation for Kids: Flying

Flying:

Part one-

Begin by warming up the group with a little standing exercise, or tensing and relaxing the body several times, and some basic stretching. From the very beginning, focus on creating harmony between breath and movement. (When we inhale- energy rises in the body and when we exhale, energy is moving downward, so ask the children to inhale as they raise their arms overhead, or as they stand up after a forward bend etc. Have them exhale as the arms come down or when the bend forward into a stretch. Stretches that flex the body forward and back and side to side can help children become more aware of the inner energy flow if they practice with that focus. Ask them to feel what is happening inside.

Have them begin the meditation by standing tall. Try to shift your own energy into a more meditative, and calm state as you lead this portion. Guide them into slow deep breathing. Have them close their eyes and visualize the sky all around them and pretend they are very large birds gliding above the earth, gradually rising toward the clouds. Ask them to use their arms like huge wings and to raise them when they inhale and drop them down a bit as they exhale (very slowly because they are so big). Guide them to keep the breathing in synch with the movement in every way.

Let them go at their own pace for a time and continue guiding them to feel the wind as it blows past them, viewing the beautiful colors of the earth from above and to really feel that they are moving forward and upward into the sky. Suggest that they feel light and free as they continue to rise, and for them to smile as they joyfully soar upward.

Part two- (optional)

Have the kids sit down with upright posture. Close the eyes and lift the gaze and feel their own breath. Have them try to feel as if they are flying without using their arms. Explain that this is a more advanced meditation technique where the body is kept very still and it may not be for everyone, but if they want to try you’ll give it a go with them. Ask them to be very still and just try to fly in their own imaginations. Guide them to relax their breathing and toward letting the breath come and go as it pleases and to really feel it -without controlling it. They may keep focusing on gliding forward and upward into the heavens and silently rising higher and higher until they are surrounded not just by clouds but eventually by the very beautiful stars and planets and even galaxies that shimmer in space! Help them to feel the increasing stillness and quiet of space where there is no wind and no sound.

Help them to experience all they see as part of their own selves.

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Meditation for Kids: Singing Bowl

Singing Bowl:

Guide the kids into proper posture without unneeded tension. (important at least to suggest as it will hopefully help them develop the habit of healthy posture during all activities, not just meditation over time)

Give them the arms-length-thumb-high-as-top-of-head target: Have them extend one arm, make a fist and hold the thumb pointing upward and raise it so the thumb is even or slightly higher than the top of their own head and look at it to get used to this position and then close the eyes and pretend they are still focused on the thumb. This is the eye position for closed eyes during most all meditation exercises I would recommend. Or explain it some other way, like “imagine you are looking at a star just over the horizon at night.” This isn’t exactly the same but I think it’s close enough.

If their faces look contorted ask them to relax their faces and eyes.

Guide them through a few slow deep breaths (this can be omitted or greatly expanded depending on the age and energy of the group, time available, and what the leader is trying to accomplish)

Ask them to begin listening in their right ear for whatever sounds they can hear.

Then explain you will make a noise and they are to listen to it very carefully (especially in the right ear) then softly begin to play the bowl but try not to bang it, or play it too strongly. Remember that kids can hear things that adults can’t. So after you stop hearing the tone, the kids may continue listening for a time, so don’t interrupt them. Let them listen as long as they can hear it.

You’ll have to decide how long and in what way you want to play the singing bowl. Eventually though, let it fade out into nothing and meditate on the fading sound with the kids and ask them to enjoy the stillness for a moment or two if you like following this exercise.

There are many types of singing bowls and other sound makers that can be used for this meditation. I like using a large crystal bowl because the sound lingers for a good amount of time.

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Baby Steps to Greater Peace

Having inner-peace is necessary to live a truly successful life. After all, what good are favorable circumstances or things, if we can’t enjoy them?

Baby steps toward greater peace and joy:

  • Meditate at least once per day, even for five or ten minutes, using a proven technique, and (if possible) with the feeling of gratitude, or devotion in your heart.
  • Practice feeling (or visualize/imagine the feeling of) kindness in your heart and allowing it to slowly fill you and then expand beyond your physical body to include others, as a blessing in meditation. Try this also when you are in a store or other public place each day.
  • Listen to others with patience and see beyond their faults (as you would your own child or dear friend).
  • Perform at least one specific, conscious, personally selected act of service to your fellow beings each day (without seeking any validation or recognition for the act).
  • Smile! :-)
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Attitude is Everything in Meditation

The attitude one brings to meditation is more important than any technique.

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Courage

This is a talk I gave recently at Ananda Meditation Center on Courage.

Talk length: 19:06 min.

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Blessings,

turiya

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Wisdom & Its Attainment

This is a talk I gave recently at Ananda Meditation Center. Wisdom is gained through experience. All life experience has a purpose and it’s up to us to tune in, listen and learn, and make the very best of every moment. In the most difficult times are often found the greatest blessings, even if we don’t recognize them until later on.

I hope you find this talk to be helpful or interesting. Talk length: 36:09 min.

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Joy to you,

turiya

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Sexuality & Self-Control

Why do the great spiritual traditions suggest we practice sexual and sensual self-control, or bramacharya? This video is part of a series (of 108 short episodes made for youtube) Swami Kriyananda has done based on the Bhagavad Gita.

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Sex & sense enjoyment are not “bad” or “wrong,” yet we do pay a price for them. The choice is ours. This video offers a deep and generally unknown teaching about the nature of human life-force and why one might choose to conserve it. In yogic tradition it is well known that the power lost during sexual emission is the very life-force that sustains us physically, mentally, and spiritually. Self-control over the sex impulse leads to greater clarity and mental power.

The depletion of life-force through over indulgence in sex (and lack of self-control in general) has a cumulative negative effect on ones mental clarity, and overall health. Many sincere seekers have found that over indulgence in any sense pleasure actually dims their awareness or strengthens the feeling of being separate from God or one’s Highest-Self.

Bramacharya is more than sexual abstinence. Swami Kriyananda writes in “Awaken to Superconsciousness”:

“…brahmacharya means control of every natural appetite, of which sexual desire is the strongest but not the only one.
 
The ideal behind this teaching is to live identified with the Spirit, realizing ourselves as the soul living through the body, and no longer as the ego centered in body-consciousness. We should live in such a way as to master our appetites, and not allow ourselves to be mastered by them.
 
The recommendation here is not extreme abstinence, although complete sexual abstinence is at least a possibility. The important thing is to achieve self-control, first by moderation, directing our efforts only gradually toward perfect self-control.
 
To accomplish self-control, the seeker is taught even in the midst of enjoyment to direct that sense of enjoyment upward to the brain. He should try to feel that sensory pleasure is feeding his inner joy at its source in the Self.”
 

I would like to know what you think about this topic, and also try to answer any questions you may have regarding sex and spirituality.

Joy to you!

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Finding God in All

I’d love to hear what you think about what I am saying here. I invite you to post your comments below. Thanks!

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Turiya during Sunday Service at Ananda Meditation Center in Torrance CA

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Christ is not a man. Christ is God’s perfect reflection at the center of every being and every atom. Jesus Christ, Buddha, Moses and many other great masters are equal and united in the one God.

If we want peace we must begin with ourselves. Choose love. Choose to see God in everywhere and in everyone. We are not so different as we appear. We all seek the same things. Sectarianism and pride are the antidote to Peace and Unity.

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Thinking May Not Help You

The drunkard can’t imagine life without alcohol. Those shrouded in delusion and who experience the emotional and spiritual suffering that goes with it are afraid of awakening from it. And those who seek their comfort in ”control” often drive the “car of their lives” off a cliff when they try to steer it where THEY want to go.

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The unknown can be scary for all of us. But what do we really know anyway? We must learn to soar in the unknown sooner or later if we would awaken from the dream of our suffering and limitation. Most of us live in the bubble of what we accept as real or important based on past experience. But life is not set-up to protect this bubble. In fact, I have found that no matter how hard I try to protect it, my own bubble of  comfort is never safe! It seems that life is mysteriously designed to pop our bubble as many times as needed in order to push us forward in our spiritual growth until we finally realize our highest truth as one with all.*

Breathe and relax into whatever troubles you. Feel a willingness to accept things as they are right now. Try to feel your chest and heart open and relax. This might come with some fear or emotion. But don’t let that stop you from releasing any tension you have. Try to make peace with what you feel, don’t try to suppress it, but let it go. Even visualize it rising upward into the sky. See it shrinking in the distance until it disappears.

Now go back to your breath and feel it’s peace in your heart. Fell fresh and clean inside, and taste each new breath as it fills your heart with peace. Feel a small bubble of peace at your center, but don’t hold on to it tightly. Instead, try to feel your bubble of peace expanding in all directions. Allow your experience of Peace to expand and to bless others in all directions. Allow it to reach beyond any challenge you face and to hold the situation and people who may be involved, in the Peace, Light, and Love of your heart.

Do what you must to feel awe, wonder, and gratitude in the quiet of your own heart daily. Inner Peace is required to be able to truly experience or share anything of depth with others.

Keep expanding your bubble of Peace and Love. If you do this, you’ll be guided to make the right choices and to live in a way that is harmonious and fulfilling, no matter what challenges come your way.

Peace and Joy to You,

turiya

I look forward to your thoughts or questions as always.

*The bubble of our love is not like bubbles found on the material plane. Those are more prone to burst if they continue to expand, but the bubble of our love finds strength in expansion and only becomes fragile if we try to limit its growth.

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Heart Chakra Meditation for Calmness

This is a 22 minute guided meditation from a past free Monday lecture/meditation meeting. The paintings in the slideshow are by my wife Ashleigh.

You may purchase a download or CD of this meditation and the lecture that goes with it.

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